There are different ways in which one goes in about enjoying sex and the new craze about such enjoyment is about enjoying power dynamics. The Bondage and discipline are such thoughts that come from the urge to do an activity by anyone and the other exercising restrain on such activities. These are called the new sex play of Dominance and Submission. When 2 are into an act of such Dominance and Submission, one sets the rules and the other tries to abide by it. When the dominant partner in sexual activities would find the rules are being broken, he or she tries to mete out punishment.
Inflicting pain for pleasure
All these are play acting as one person gives the other the power to become dominant. This dominance would be with emotional and physical fields too. The dominant person would order or mete out punishment that touches sadism or is for inflicting pain to the submissive person. When this bdsm paris is an order to bring up the rear end, it is nearing to sadism and it is done to inflict shame or pain. The masochism is the feelings of one who receives such pain or shame and hence these activities are also named sadomasochism.
Make sure there is consent
The term BDSM is all about dominance and submission but these are to be done with healthy and respectful rules. Make sure there is consent from your partner about such activities and there is proper information about the things that you are going to try. There must be clarification about your enthusiasm and when you are asking for permission – it must be without any coercion. There are partners who take this BDSM into a playful act and only they can enjoy it. They work out some verbal agreement and start things with casual conversation. The other most important thing is that the consent can be taken back at any time that one of the partners feel uncomfortable into the activities.
Safety must be planned
This BDSM will take you to the realm of risk and you need to be sure that you both remain safe. Both the parties must make it a point that safety should be the most important thing. It should help you to avoid injuries or disease and definitely can take you away from any danger. You may plan activities to inflict pain but it should actually not hurt anyone. Do some research on this and then step into the realm of this playacting. Its kinky to use rope or pinch or hit but there should not be real marks for the activities.
Some kinky acts
You may find that there are some special acts in this bdsm paris that will give you pleasure. Things like pulling hair or light spanking are some such activities. These are fantasies and can be done real lightly. You can also incorporate toys to bring more fun in it. You can also experiment with using abusive languages. Name calling is another thing that comes into such sadomasochism. Part of bondage can be tying up with scarf or taking up commands to make your partner restrained under the bed. There are role playing partners and one of the partner can tie the arm at the back while giving oral sex. The begging or biting are also role playing that you will enjoy immensely as it makes one submissive and the other dominant.